More often than not we tend to think that we are not valid in our feelings of hurt, betrayal, sadness, or even anger. We’re selfless in the sense that we don’t think we are justified in our hurt feelings when we could’ve had it much worse. What we fail to realize however, is that we are human and what we feel is real and we are entitled to those feelings. We are allowed to be upset with someone. We are allowed to feel something other than happiness in a relationship. Don’t ever let anyone try to tell you that you shouldn’t be crying after a rough day because they’ve “had an even worse day”. Don’t ever let anyone try to tell you your feelings are insignificant or minuscule. Don’t ever let anyone try to undermine what you are feeling.